It's Getting Hot Out Herre!

So usually I am excited about the summer time, not only because my birthday is in June, but because there are usually more activities to do and the weather is a lot more bearable. This was true until...THE MDWEST HEAT WAVE! What is going on with this ridiculous weather? So far there has been 22 deaths due to the heat wave. Just yesterday I burnt myself nearly everytime I got in my car. On top of the temperatures being sky high so is the heat index causing no cool breeze that may have relieved a little discomfort. I feel sorry for those who have no choice, but to walk outside. Can you imagine living outside homeless during times like these? Usually they are worried about freezing to death now they are worrying about heat exhaustion. I recommend anyone who has access to an air conditioner remain near it for the next few days. If you do not have air conditioner please stay hydrated and near a fan or a cool shaded area. Good luck people! As for you Mr. Heat, it is time for you to cool it down because as I said before, and will always say... "we don't do nonsense round herre!"

The reason I write

This is a more personal blog all are true feelings...today i received a letter from my brother who is currently locked up in prison and as always I was excited to see what he was going to say. I couldn't wait so I had my husband open it and read to me over the phone. My heart begins to hurt as I type this. He begins his letter discussing my mother and I relationship that we have with each other. To give you a short version...parents, drugs, divorce, rehab, grandparents, "new" family, depression/mental abuse, adult! That's how my mother and my relationship was during years I lived in her house. Oh and on top of that I played a major role in my brother and sister's lives. He proceeds to tell me that I am ungrateful for what she has done for me, she did nothing to me, I am a nasty person who is not living in reality right now, and that I am taking care of other people. I am still in disbelief knowing that this was coming from the little boy I love so dearly. I remember when he was born and I cried when I had to leave the hospital the next day and go to school. I never thought anything would tear us apart I felt as though we were inseparable, but was unaware that a son's attachment to his mother means so much more than that. I always wanted to have that same type of relationship with my mom as well. I never understood why she always treated me like another female who was not really apart of her family, but she just had to deal with me because unfortunately I was her daughter. I always felt controlled felt as if though I didn't belong and then to realize now as an adult ...I was used. I never was appreciated for putting my life on hold and now that I am making huge accomplishments I must be stopped. Unfortunately for them I have been working on my emotions for years now an I can truly say this time you didn't hurt me. I win because my life will go on with or without you and hopefully as a family you learn to get pass things...hopefully. Anyways I can vent all day but I will come to a conclusion and say this to "you" as I have said before, and will always say..."we don't do nonsense round herre".

Top Four Crazy Week Pics

Just when you thought Gaga's wardrobe couldn't get any worse smdh

                                                     Was this guy on America's Untalented?

The sad part is that someone still has not told this girl that her videos are hilarious which is why we request more...smh. And last we have pure confusion, where did this guy come from or better yet that voice. And is it just me or is he speaking about black people...just sayin'. "We dont do nonsense round herre", apparently they do :/

Same old stuff a at nightclubs

"These are the flyers that get you"

So my husband and I try to go out every once in awhile just to get out of the house. Being a married couple the club is not that fun for us anymore. The only reason I really ever went was to get drunk, hang out with my single friends, and take someone home by the end of the night. We decided to go out last weekend because we heard there was going to be this party going on that sounded kind of fun. I just want to know why it seems as though every time we really want to go out, something random takes place at the club. So we arrived and got excited that we find a great parking space right in front of the club, no lines, and we walk right up and into the club. I guess this could have been a sign that once we entered around the corner there would only be about 30 people standing around any maybe 3 girls on stage dancing. The clubs these days are so predictable (at least black clubs are). At a black club you will always find the same people that more than likely come every weekend who now think they own the place. There is always a group of girls that seem to be over the top drunk knowing they probably only had a couple of drinks, but it is the thing to do I guess. There will always be people hanging around the bar acting as though they are buying up the place when in reality they are just making an excuse why they aren't dancing. Ladies, stop standing around doing the "pretty girl rock" talking about what dance you can do better than the next woman (show me some movement then). Then let's take a journey to the stage where the only girls who like to dance are ones who either cant dance, have rolls for days that no one wants to look at, or some hood chick who just wants to stare at their ass in the mirror. Oh and you thought I forgot about the fellas? Of course not! You guys are the funniest because every nicca think they a baller no matter how much money they really came with. If it's not from the tags they still have on their brand new fit, or the wad of singles they may pull out every five seconds, or just the extra cool swag they have (you know the kind where they can barely smile nor move). On top of that there is always a character you find at the club. Last weekend I saw Popeye, Bow Wow, Whiz Kalifa, Nicki Minaj, and the lady from Fame all in one room. Oops forgot little Diggy Simmons who turned into Drake on stage. People please, what has the world come to when we forget what it means to have fun? All I can say is the club life just isn't for me anymore because as I have said before, and will always say..."we don't do nonsense round herre"

WTF?: Planking going too far?

WTF?: Planking going too far?: "This is the #1 sport on my nonsense list that I still have not gotten why people even do. Who invented this new hobby called planking? First..."

Planking going too far?

This is the #1 sport on my nonsense list that I still have not gotten why people even do. Who invented this new hobby called planking? First thing that comes to mind...someone high off their mind. Only people who do some type of extracurricular drug find things like this interesting (not saying their dumb, but things tend to be more funny). At first I thought it was a phase and only a select few people were doing. Now it has made it big to youtube, Worldstar, and now even Facebook. From the dude selling socks on the corner to celebrities on vacation. I just don't get it! Not only have people tried to plank in outrageous places such as refrigerators, microwaves, even balconies of hotels (which I would not suggest doing especially lying horizontally as a man did this year and fell to his death). Now parents are even getting their babies involved. And then they wonder why the kids are crazy? I don't know maybe I am getting old, or it's just plain dumb but on this blog page as I have said before, and will always say...."we don't do nonsense round herre."

The Anthony Case Madness

At first this story touched me because a little girl's life was taken without any care in the world.Chopped up and thrown away as trash as though she didnt mean anything. When her mother was accused of the murder I could not believe that even more. How could anyone do this to their own child? Someone of mental incapibility I suppose. I did not follow the case completely, but from the facts I did get I am not 100% sure she committed the crime, in which this is my opinion, but I feel she knows who did or more about the story than she told. In which I began to think why would she cover up her child's death unless she hired someone or it was someone close to her and the child. Abusive boyfriend quickly comes to mind... no one really knows what happened that night which is why I feel the jurors had very little to go off of. I think the defense for Anthony did a "great" job in getting her off and causing distractions to the jurors which in turn helped them come to their decision. What I do not like about the results of this case are the angry mobs that are torturing these poor jurors. No one knows what they would have done in this situation, as well as know one knows who actually agreed and who didnt. Read up more on the jury process before making your assumptions about what they could have or should have done. These are innocent people just as little baby Anthony and they also have families. Does their decision mean they are baby murderers? No, the person who did this to Caylee is the "real" murderer. It is very sad if this mother did this to her only child, but it is not our right to torture anyone for what we feel is right. I think Caylee would be more appreciative of the prayers and support and that her killer finally gets what is coming to them and I am sure she wont stop fighting wherever she is to ensure that is done. We love you little Caylee and pray for you here in Milwaukee, WI...AND TO ALL THE SEXUAL ABUSERS, KIDNAPPERS, RAPIST, AND MURDERERS as I said before, and will always say... "we don't do nonense round herre"