It's Getting Hot Out Herre!

So usually I am excited about the summer time, not only because my birthday is in June, but because there are usually more activities to do and the weather is a lot more bearable. This was true until...THE MDWEST HEAT WAVE! What is going on with this ridiculous weather? So far there has been 22 deaths due to the heat wave. Just yesterday I burnt myself nearly everytime I got in my car. On top of the temperatures being sky high so is the heat index causing no cool breeze that may have relieved a little discomfort. I feel sorry for those who have no choice, but to walk outside. Can you imagine living outside homeless during times like these? Usually they are worried about freezing to death now they are worrying about heat exhaustion. I recommend anyone who has access to an air conditioner remain near it for the next few days. If you do not have air conditioner please stay hydrated and near a fan or a cool shaded area. Good luck people! As for you Mr. Heat, it is time for you to cool it down because as I said before, and will always say... "we don't do nonsense round herre!"

The reason I write

This is a more personal blog all are true feelings...today i received a letter from my brother who is currently locked up in prison and as always I was excited to see what he was going to say. I couldn't wait so I had my husband open it and read to me over the phone. My heart begins to hurt as I type this. He begins his letter discussing my mother and I relationship that we have with each other. To give you a short version...parents, drugs, divorce, rehab, grandparents, "new" family, depression/mental abuse, adult! That's how my mother and my relationship was during years I lived in her house. Oh and on top of that I played a major role in my brother and sister's lives. He proceeds to tell me that I am ungrateful for what she has done for me, she did nothing to me, I am a nasty person who is not living in reality right now, and that I am taking care of other people. I am still in disbelief knowing that this was coming from the little boy I love so dearly. I remember when he was born and I cried when I had to leave the hospital the next day and go to school. I never thought anything would tear us apart I felt as though we were inseparable, but was unaware that a son's attachment to his mother means so much more than that. I always wanted to have that same type of relationship with my mom as well. I never understood why she always treated me like another female who was not really apart of her family, but she just had to deal with me because unfortunately I was her daughter. I always felt controlled felt as if though I didn't belong and then to realize now as an adult ...I was used. I never was appreciated for putting my life on hold and now that I am making huge accomplishments I must be stopped. Unfortunately for them I have been working on my emotions for years now an I can truly say this time you didn't hurt me. I win because my life will go on with or without you and hopefully as a family you learn to get pass things...hopefully. Anyways I can vent all day but I will come to a conclusion and say this to "you" as I have said before, and will always say..."we don't do nonsense round herre".

Top Four Crazy Week Pics

Just when you thought Gaga's wardrobe couldn't get any worse smdh

                                                     Was this guy on America's Untalented?

The sad part is that someone still has not told this girl that her videos are hilarious which is why we request more...smh. And last we have pure confusion, where did this guy come from or better yet that voice. And is it just me or is he speaking about black people...just sayin'. "We dont do nonsense round herre", apparently they do :/

Same old stuff a at nightclubs

"These are the flyers that get you"

So my husband and I try to go out every once in awhile just to get out of the house. Being a married couple the club is not that fun for us anymore. The only reason I really ever went was to get drunk, hang out with my single friends, and take someone home by the end of the night. We decided to go out last weekend because we heard there was going to be this party going on that sounded kind of fun. I just want to know why it seems as though every time we really want to go out, something random takes place at the club. So we arrived and got excited that we find a great parking space right in front of the club, no lines, and we walk right up and into the club. I guess this could have been a sign that once we entered around the corner there would only be about 30 people standing around any maybe 3 girls on stage dancing. The clubs these days are so predictable (at least black clubs are). At a black club you will always find the same people that more than likely come every weekend who now think they own the place. There is always a group of girls that seem to be over the top drunk knowing they probably only had a couple of drinks, but it is the thing to do I guess. There will always be people hanging around the bar acting as though they are buying up the place when in reality they are just making an excuse why they aren't dancing. Ladies, stop standing around doing the "pretty girl rock" talking about what dance you can do better than the next woman (show me some movement then). Then let's take a journey to the stage where the only girls who like to dance are ones who either cant dance, have rolls for days that no one wants to look at, or some hood chick who just wants to stare at their ass in the mirror. Oh and you thought I forgot about the fellas? Of course not! You guys are the funniest because every nicca think they a baller no matter how much money they really came with. If it's not from the tags they still have on their brand new fit, or the wad of singles they may pull out every five seconds, or just the extra cool swag they have (you know the kind where they can barely smile nor move). On top of that there is always a character you find at the club. Last weekend I saw Popeye, Bow Wow, Whiz Kalifa, Nicki Minaj, and the lady from Fame all in one room. Oops forgot little Diggy Simmons who turned into Drake on stage. People please, what has the world come to when we forget what it means to have fun? All I can say is the club life just isn't for me anymore because as I have said before, and will always say..."we don't do nonsense round herre"

WTF?: Planking going too far?

WTF?: Planking going too far?: "This is the #1 sport on my nonsense list that I still have not gotten why people even do. Who invented this new hobby called planking? First..."

Planking going too far?

This is the #1 sport on my nonsense list that I still have not gotten why people even do. Who invented this new hobby called planking? First thing that comes to mind...someone high off their mind. Only people who do some type of extracurricular drug find things like this interesting (not saying their dumb, but things tend to be more funny). At first I thought it was a phase and only a select few people were doing. Now it has made it big to youtube, Worldstar, and now even Facebook. From the dude selling socks on the corner to celebrities on vacation. I just don't get it! Not only have people tried to plank in outrageous places such as refrigerators, microwaves, even balconies of hotels (which I would not suggest doing especially lying horizontally as a man did this year and fell to his death). Now parents are even getting their babies involved. And then they wonder why the kids are crazy? I don't know maybe I am getting old, or it's just plain dumb but on this blog page as I have said before, and will always say...."we don't do nonsense round herre."

The Anthony Case Madness

At first this story touched me because a little girl's life was taken without any care in the world.Chopped up and thrown away as trash as though she didnt mean anything. When her mother was accused of the murder I could not believe that even more. How could anyone do this to their own child? Someone of mental incapibility I suppose. I did not follow the case completely, but from the facts I did get I am not 100% sure she committed the crime, in which this is my opinion, but I feel she knows who did or more about the story than she told. In which I began to think why would she cover up her child's death unless she hired someone or it was someone close to her and the child. Abusive boyfriend quickly comes to mind... no one really knows what happened that night which is why I feel the jurors had very little to go off of. I think the defense for Anthony did a "great" job in getting her off and causing distractions to the jurors which in turn helped them come to their decision. What I do not like about the results of this case are the angry mobs that are torturing these poor jurors. No one knows what they would have done in this situation, as well as know one knows who actually agreed and who didnt. Read up more on the jury process before making your assumptions about what they could have or should have done. These are innocent people just as little baby Anthony and they also have families. Does their decision mean they are baby murderers? No, the person who did this to Caylee is the "real" murderer. It is very sad if this mother did this to her only child, but it is not our right to torture anyone for what we feel is right. I think Caylee would be more appreciative of the prayers and support and that her killer finally gets what is coming to them and I am sure she wont stop fighting wherever she is to ensure that is done. We love you little Caylee and pray for you here in Milwaukee, WI...AND TO ALL THE SEXUAL ABUSERS, KIDNAPPERS, RAPIST, AND MURDERERS as I said before, and will always say... "we don't do nonense round herre"

The Dugard Story

So I was flipping through my channels last night and decided to watch the Jaycee Dugard story with my hubby. I hate stories like this because I do not understand what could possess an adult to do things that this man did to young girls. On top of that his wife was also involved! The story starts off with a little girl age 11 returning home from school when she is approached by this man looking for directions. He then stuns her with a stun gun and puts her in the back seat of his car while his wife holds her down. She gets abused repeatedly for 18 years! And even has two children by this man at the age of 14 and 18. The part that got me the most is that the man was already a registered sex offender who had been on house arrest and also had continous visits by his parole officer. Facts show that while Jaycee was living in this couples backyard, the parole office had been out to visit ~60 times and she even spoke to one of the officers, but no one noticed anything suspicous. It took two campus cops to notice something strange about the way the girls acted around Gariddo when they visited the Berkeley University. Stories like this frustrate me to the fullest. I myself don't have kids, but could only imagine what this family has gone through. Jaycee is now a 31 year old woman, but in some ways she is still a child. Her story was so moving because although she has been through so much she has such a positive outlook on everything. For the Gariddo couple...well I hope they rot in hell together! Because as I said before, and will always say..."we don't do nonsense round herre"

"Baseball Fan Plunges to Death"

Police and fans looking as man falls to ground

Baseball is a sport that the average viewer would rate the least likely to get seriously injured in, right? Wrong! It is even sadder when the injured victim is nothing more than a fan who likes the game. This year alone there has already been two deaths in a MLB stadium where both victims were trying to reach for a ball batted into the crowd by one of the players. On Thursday night, a man fell 20 feet from the stands trying to catch a ball while his young son sitting next to him watched in horror. The man, later identified as 39 yr. old Shannon Stone, was rushed into the medical van where he went into a cardiac arrest and later died. How sad is this? Not only is this the most tragic death anyone could ever watch or have to go through, but on top of that the young boy had to watch his father fall to his death. I don't think I could ever look at baseball the same again. And how do you think the player felt who batted the ball? All I can say is this, maybe it's time we stop with the "ball" catching. Build some nets around me so I don't even get any ideas. I mean whose smart idea was that anyways? Hell it's dangerous no matter how you look at with balls flying at my head. As I have said before, and will always say..."we don't do nonsese round herre!"

Dumb Arguments:(

Has anyone ever found themselves having the most dumbest arguments that don't even have anything detrimental to do with your relationship? Just last night my "significant other" went into the gas station to grab a pack of cigarettes. I'm sitting out in the car when this guy decides to bring his giant wolf bear dog (it's possible) and hooks it up right next to my car. Now already knowing how frightened my partner is of animals I try to back up a little, but it's too late because he is already at the door trying to get in (automatic locks). Guess whose head gets chewed off now and this huge screaming match begins going a little too far if I might say so myself. What is that about? You go through all this work yelling and ignoring each other just to be sitting alone wondering what "they" doing. I tell you relationships are definitely some work and frankly some bull if you ask me. Lol, just kidding but hey as I said before and will always say..."we don't do nonsense round herre" Or at least try not to ;)

Facebook destroying lives?

So, there is this big debate that has been going on about if facebook destroys lives or not. In my opinion I feel that initially facebook is the cause of a lot of problems. Examples, don't put your business all out there and then wonder why people know so much about you. If your scheming, disable your wall comments please. Ladies! stop with the late night drunken facebook messages (your cell phone should be nowhere near you!) and Men! if your're going to be a player learn how to watch your fingers so they dont accidently slip on the upload pics to facebook button... smdh. But all in all I feel that it is the people who ultimately are the carriers of their own fate. If you use facebook as a source for networking and games you'll be straight. Anything else...well guess it's time to start you a blog as well lmao. As I said before and will always say, we don't do nonsense round herre;)

P.S.-check out funny uploaded Facebook skit I attached from youtube, hope you enjoy:)

Teens Wreck Shop in Milwaukee's gas station

WTF? Do you know where your children are these days? Did they tell you they were sleeping over Ke Ke's house when really they were out tearing up Milwaukee's east side. A mob of 50 plus teens ran up and down streets as they had been doing all week. The day to remember is July 3rd when roughly 4 people were attacked as a angry mob of teens came trucking down street towards the victims kicking and punching them. Not only did they harass innocent residents, but also decided it would be a smart idea to go rob a BP gas station of all the good snacks. Now, you would think common sense would kick in and tell these young fools all gas stations have video surveillance! Nope, so guess whose mama saw them running out of the store with a box of cheetos...yup that was you. Smh wondering what the world is coming to. On top of that, you know black mommas dont be playing about discipline. "Oh so that's where you got all them airheads from huh? Get yo ass down to the police station!" Hand clap to those mothers who stepped up...as I said before and will always we don't do nonsense round herre:)